Determine how high you aim | © Fola Daniel Adelesi

Several years ago I had an experience when I was a student in a secondary school. It was a phase in my life that I will never forget because of the very many lessons I can take away from period and the school itself. One of such great experiences is to never allow other people determine for me how high I can aim in life.

For those who have been following me for a while, I think I have mentioned here before that in those days we ran elections to become pretexts in my school. We had pretexts from S.S. 2 and then in the final year, S.S. 3. Those in S.S.2 occupied some lower positions and those in S.S.3 were the only ones that could occupy the really big positions.

I first became a perfect from S.S.2 and going by the position I held and how well I used to talk, everyone thought I would automatically contest for a position which was called ‘Information Officer’ in those days. It was a nice position. It would give me prominence because I would get the chance to talk more often.

Deep down within me my mind wanted something bigger. I wanted the highest position attainable because I knew I had something to offer. I aspired to become the Senior Perfect. Now when I made this know, some people where shocked! They came to me and said I should have contested for a lower position. At least what I should have gone for is Information Officer and not Senior Perfect.

Why did they say that? One of the reasons was that they thought I was dreaming too big. They thought my aim was too high. They never saw the possibility of what I was aiming for. I was probably the only who knew it was possible.

Another reason they probably thought it was not possible or that I was wasting my time was that I was not a science student! So I was probably the first to get into that position from outside the sciences.

Indeed, there were many odds against me but I was not going to let the odds determine how high I could aim. I was also not going to allow people speak common sense into me and slim my chances. I could have listened to them and would have gotten the lower position easily. I would have also carried on not knowing that I could have attained a bigger position.

What brought this story into my mind today? I just wanted to use it to encourage you about your dreams and aspirations. It is posssible that you have dropped some big dreams because some people talked you into pursuing some small dreams.

If for such reasons you are now aiming low, I dare you nice again to aim high. If the only reason you are chasing your present dream is because someone told you the bigger dreams are ‘not for you’ or that ‘you are still to small’, then they have set the limits for you.

I need you to break that limit. Drop the small dreams that you never really wanted to pursue. Stop chasing the dream that others think is okay for you to chase and start chasing your real dreams without the limitations of others determining how high you aim!

Fola Daniel Adelesi
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About the author Fola Daniel Adelesi

Fola Daniel Adelesi is a professional public speaker who also trains other speakers. He's a highly engaging training facilitator and he holds his large audience spell bound when speaking at gatherings. Apart from his several platforms which include banks, insurance companies and religious organizations where he facilitates trainings, he has been a part of some national television shows and he spoke so intelligently. He's an author, business consultant and highly skilled master of ceremony with excellent poise and diction. He was on the Debaters TV reality show season 1, he presented 'You Can' on Radio Continental in 2011 and he did motivational segments on Galaxy TV from Dec 2008 to August 2009. Fola Daniel has authored at least 5 books including ‘Writing Business Proposals,’ ‘The Mentoring father’ and ‘Get up and hit that goal.’ He talked about Social Media on - An ICT Show on Lagos Television from August 2015 to late 2016. He’s a regular guest on some national tv platforms (including Channels TV and Television Continental) and a delight to their audience. He trained as a communications professional, works as a business consultant and was also trained at Lagos Business School in collaboration with Google as a Digital Business Manager. He is the President and CEO of the Edible Pen Group.

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