Opportunities are like programmes transmitted through the satellite. If your receivers are not tuned in you will never get them. Let me be quick to let you in on the fact that the illusion called opportunity is simply the result of some decisions we have already taken – ranging from what school to go, what kind of friends to keep, what we have done with our time or are doing with our time, our choice of profession and even the kind of person to marry. Just as one can be frustrated while waiting for opportunities based on the kind of talents and abilities that you have, it can also be an interesting thing to do. Rather than waiting for opportunities we may have to learn how to fast track them if we don’t want our patience to run out of elasticity.
Day after day we walk through the streets looking for opportunities and sometimes expecting to hit the magic wand that makes everything available to us on one spot because advertisements have made our appetites go wild. You look through stores in shopping malls and you find stickers or banners telling you, ‘this is your one-stop-shopping-centre’ but the real truth about life is that you cannot get everything in one place.
Some other times it is not about where to get the opportunities that we need because it does not seem to be forth coming at all. We are desperately in need of a chance to get something done. We desperately want to get a platform to show people what we can do. We desperately want to an opportunity to sell what we have produced. We look around us and it seems we will never get a chance to make money yet we have to face the unpaid bills piling up on the desk at home or in the office.
All sorts of deadlines are fast approaching and all of them need to be met because no one seems to be less important. In the middle of all these you still remember the need to stay relevant and one of the ways to do that is leveraging on training from educational institutions or professional certifications that may improve your chances when the opportunities come. Just then you remember that all the trainings are good but it wouldn’t just be good, it would be great if you had the funds to pursue them. At this moment you are tempted to drift into feeling disadvantaged because at some point you did not get a chance to choose what sort of home you were born in and how wealthy your parents should be. Following that you seemingly have a limited chance to decide what kind of training you get through formal education or other means and consequently cannot decide how people perceive you in life.
You just may want a chance to be wooed by a man and you seem to be deliberately creating the circumstances for the expected event but it’s not happening. You want a job that you are good at and you probably can do it better than the person who is handling it right now but it just looks like the opportunity is not forth coming. There are several things you have tried and there are several things you are still willing to do but you have only done those things because you wouldn’t like to be seen as a lazy person. You are almost questioning the logic behind all that you do because you don’t really believe in it anymore.
When the opportunities fail to show up maybe because you are expecting them from others then I can advise you do one thing. Create the opportunities that you are looking for instead of waiting for them. Many of us think we are less privileged and that someone else must come to our aid. We always look forward to people who seem to have things working for them and we don’t understand why they wouldn’t want to send us abroad for greener pasture. We don’t understand why these people would not send us money from time to time. We don’t understand why these people cannot just picture what we are going through and just come to our aid.
Well let me answer some of your questions about why some will not see what you need and create opportunities for you. They are simply not GOD and they are also expecting opportunities. They don’t have it all even though things seem to be going right for them. Some of the people you envy right now will gladly trade places with you and let you have all that you call opportunities if only they know the kind of peace that you have.
When the opportunities don’t seem to show up, create them! Don’t assume somebody knows how good you are at something. Make some noise about it! You need to be daring enough to walk up to places and people to talk about what you think you can do even when you have never done such before. You have to stop looking at who is going to talk to you about having required experience and just try your hands on something. Don’t wait till you lose your job before you start desperately creating opportunities.
Displaying your talent at every given chance is one other way I have learnt to create opportunities for myself. When I get the microphone, I don’t spare it. I always do this because I know one of the first things to do is to impress my face and name in the people’s hearts until they just cannot forget me. All of those people will eventually get to a place where they need someone who does what I do so well and I will be the one they will call. What that means is that I once got an opportunity to show my talents and I maximized it in preparation for the opportunity to make some money.
Don’t be deceived about opportunities coming tomorrow. The things you do today will determine what becomes an opportunity for you tomorrow. If you are not a writer today you cannot possibly dream about a publishing opportunity! If you are not an engineer today you cannot be preparing for a building contract no matter how much you know about it.
When opportunities don’t seem to be showing up, sit down and decide what kind of opportunities you are really looking for and prepare for it. While you are preparing, I guarantee someone you don’t know is watching and often times we create opportunities by just doing what we know how to do with no intention to impress anyone. The people watching are fascinated by our sincerity of purpose and they just feel like helping us.
Beyond looking for someone to help you, your real opportunities may lie in looking for whom to help. With your seemingly little capacity there are people you can help who may in turn come to help you with what you need. Whether or not they can help you may not be as important as giving them a chance by helping them in your own way.
One other thing I think you can do instead of expecting opportunities that that seem bent on not showing up is to separate yourself from the many activities you are involved in without productivity. Many of us do so many things and are always very busy but after being very busy we end up being very frustrated because we did not stay away from the noise to access what we were doing. If you will ever see or create opportunities you may never see them by being where everybody is.
Some opportunities have been created for us and we are still looking for them. In such situation we give people the impression that we are waiting for opportunities but the truth is that the opportunity is the one waiting for us. Accessing or creating opportunities therefore may require looking back at the things we have been through and some things we have done. There are opportunities in some of them. I remember creating an office just from the luggage I brought back from school when I graduated. If I never looked back I may not have realized that I had a potential office in my bags lying in a corner of the room.
I believe and I know that there are opportunities every where and in every field even in a downturn. Financial crisis will always be someone else’s opportunity to make money. The only challenge about opportunity is that many of us have eyes and we keep looking but we never see! To access or create opportunities, you must look, especially in the direction that others are not looking, and see something that others refuse to see! We all practically walk on opportunities!